I’m Blessing Ogechi known as sallyjazzy from Enugu state married at the age of 19 years with 4 kids. It all started like a movie to me and I keep on hoping that one day his gonna change, he keep turning to a beast every day by day.
I love and cherish him like a god without knowing his a beast in human form, it was arrange marriage, within two months of knowing him we got married, I followed him to Kano state where he stays then I took in immediately, I was very happy that God has blessed me with the fruit of the womb, i never new my suffering has began. He started beating me on my first pregnancy I keep on praying hoping that he will change.
Sometimes he will beat me till I fainted he don’t want me to do anything and also give me money rather keep rules that I must abide and a lot of restrictions
Such as.
: He don’t want friends around me
: No one will visit me
: He don’t want to see android phone with me
: I must stay indoor or he beat the hell out of me.
: I shouldn’t talk to my family members
I keep on enduring and hoping for a good change. He normally brings little for feeding, if i tell him to add something that the money is too small he will start beating and cursing me that i don’t know how to manage.
Then i took in for the my second baby the beating increase the more. He will beat and send me parking, throw my stuff’s outside and I will sleep at the staircase that night when i complain to his people they will say i should change my character.
The beating continued till i give birth to all my 4 kids through Caeser operation, uncountable times i miscarried my two babies because of the beating. we stayed together for over 11 years but he don’t buy things for me, it was my mum and my brothers that help out anytime am in need.
He brought strange women into my home and have s…x with them on my matrimonial bed uncountable times I’ve run to my mother’s house after some months i will still go back to him hoping that he has change.
There was a time he beat me and i was mentally ill I didn’t know when my mum came to Kano. I am now suffering ear problem due to the heavy slap he use to give me he damage my ear drum which also resulted to an inflammation of other Sense organ.
Attached here is my husband’s picture.
