A woman who simply identified herself as Mrs. Christy, has filed for divorce to be separated from her husband, one Mr. Happy Igho Umokoro, for alleged cheating, beating and involving in illegal bunkering despite having a federal government job.
She said after trying all she could to save her three years marriage, she decided to approach the Court to dissolve the marriage as her life and peace of mind was important to her and should be preserved at all cost.
A post on Facebook by Sapele Matters, disclosed that Mr. Umukoro, is a member of the All Progressives Congress (APC).
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A CRY FOR HELP: I am a VICTIM of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
My name is Christy. I am from Delta and lives there too. I am mother of one; an Urhobo language teacher on social media and a political aid. By law, I am still married to one Mr. Happy Igho Umokoro (pending the wisdom of the court on my divorce application on dissolution of marriage with the above mentioned man). Sadly, I am here to SPEAK OUT and also CRY FOR HELP/ADVICE on the multiple cases of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE the father of my daughter had metted to me since the early days of our marriage.
As a well-trained and very domesticated young lady, I have been preinformed by family experiences and parental guidiance that there is no MARRIAGE that is devoid of CHALLENGES. So, I had prepared my mind for marital eventualities even before I got married to my husband. I had told myself that whenever challenges I can surmount come, I will do all within my strength and wisdom to tackle them while married.
At the moment, I have come to that JUNCTION in this journey of marriage I can no longer cross simply for the fact that: “MY LIFE AND PEACE OF MIND comes FIRST and must be PRESERVED at all COST. I have decided to PULL OUT of this SCAM OF A MARRIAGE I got myself involved with to a man who NEVER LOVED ME. I am leaving this marriage and also seeking all kinds of help from ALL and SUNDRY for the following reasons:
– My husband has been a celebrated and unrepentant CHEAT. I have had evidences of him cheating on our less than 3 years old union with women of almost all ages he couldnt deny. Most recent, is the case of an advanced single mother we share the same compound with- my husband’s mistress who now doubles as his cook and sex partner.
– My husband has been introduced to BUNKERING( i.e an Illegal stealing and conveyance of crude oil products) by this same NEW MISTRESS whom pays him daily for the illegal role of a driver he plays for her even when GOD just blessed him with a long prayed for and awaited Federal Government job. My daughter’s father got involved with this ILLEGAL BUNKERING activity with this lady, not minding the dangers it poses on his job, our family and even himself!
My husband has been ineffective in discharging some primaries of his marital duties. He seldomly does his bedroom duties to me as a wife because he would always come back home sexually exhausted. Financially, he succeeded in draining me( who was the one working at a time) with his flirtatious spending on mistresses. Expectedly, he became worse off after he landed himself a good job through a prominent man I linked him with.
My husband has been a chronic WOMAN BEATER. Agreed that sometimes, due to my bottled-up anger from his cheating escapades, I overreacted by verbally confronting him. Mr. Happy Igho Umokoro would not hesitate to pounce on me like a cat at such ocassions. He had formed the shameful habit of using both FISTS and OBJECTS to pound me and sometimes, lacerate my body whenever I tried ironing his excesses out with him. Of recent, he mercilessly beat the hell out of me which has lead to the loss of my 2 months and 2 weeks pregnancy few days ago.
– Lastly my husband is highly incorrigible and unrepentant. At some point when I couldn’t handle this issues within the confines of my home, I had to reach out to a few family members, friends and men of God my husband and I know very well. In as much as I hated the idea of 3rd Parties in marriage, I couldn’t keep my marital issues to myself anymore. With all the entreaties, advice and encouragements from these respected persons I had quietly consulted to help guide and save our marriage, my husband only grew worse on daily basis with his excesses.
At the moment, I have officially filed for divorce and got the police involved but he seems to be making moves to thwart my efforts to break loose and seek redress. I am currently getting tacit threat from him and this same mistress/sugar mummy of his now. I sincerely need the help of as many who have a better knowledge and the right connections to help me pull out in “ONE PIECE” from this “MARITAL MESS” I got myself involved with.
Thanks in anticipation of your responses and feel free to D.M me.
Once again,
Christy
(writing from the hospital Bed).
